There are so many instances in my life where i saw most of the married couples who dint seem as though thy should fit together...and i always used to wonder as to how can thy be happy having so many differences between themselves.
I always wonder as to what force drives us to love one person and hate another person who is almost similar to the one we love.
I have always been under a notion tht people r attracted to those who share similar interests, cultural backgrounds n more often much like our own, but generally observing wedded couples i've found out that most of the times its the opposites, complimentary pairs who r d most happy one's.....N i keep wondering y???
I do know tht Opposites attract each other but i always find it inappropriate in the context of marriage..
(How can a cleanliness OCD person share his life with a total sick unhygienic person, cant imagine a nerd with a party popper...eeww!!!how can we stand a complete contrast person 24/7??)
As an old adage says
"Partners should make sure that holes in one's head fit the bumps in others"
Considering this...mayb its true coz if we r similar n have bumps n no holes then we jus bounce back n never can merge together..so mayb its true tht thr must be some things opp to have oneness....its all in d mind...how we perceive n how we accept things....i toh jus hope tht my partner wont have so may diff's so as to make it difficult...(touch wood)
Well mayb its all in a persons head....u never know
"why we love who we love"
unless n until we'r in love...
(coz once in love everythin seems fab...even the worst qualities seem d best)
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