When i mention the word "youngest" in the family,i know there might be many of u who may think that it is best to be so...a lucky way to be rescued of all the responsibilities, having the privilege of being loved by one n all, being pampered upon by parents, havin lots of heads to guide you to the path of success, n so on...huh!!!!!
Frankly none is totally wrong...there is li'l bit of truth in those who say its lucky to be youngest considering the above said...
But trust me...being the youngest has its share of advantages but the disadvantages outweigh all the above mentioned things...
First n foremost...there is li'l scope of being independent...though u are given the freedom of takin ur own decisions...but more often its taken away from u even without your knowledge...
The decision taken by u is finally the outcome of lotta cogitation by ur family members(not solely ur's) and u just go with the flow....and before you even realise that, u are head down under with that decision and finally have to accept it...
U have no other go....
have to abide by what they say...
Having said that, i must mention it is good to have someone to back u always...but most of the times it becomes a habit and finally when u have no one to guide u....u falter n vacillate even at the minor decisions....
People feel that the youngest kids in family are the most outrageous, brave, and sorta insensitive...
but lemme tell u...all these feelings are the result of attention seeking....yup!! very much true...though the most loved in the family, they always have to go through the check-o-meter.....comparison with siblings...
They strive to be best to fit in the spotlight...
n mayb thats the reason why they are very fun loving, mischeivous, loquacious, gettin indulged in things, affectionate(loads of hugs n kisses to give out)....sole reason being to gain attention of their parents...
(either work hard to be center of attention or break the rules)
mayb a very good outcome of this attention seeking is that they always excel in everything they do...
The worst part of being youngest is they are not only guided by the parents but also by siblings(they behave as though they r the pathfinders)...
which is the most annoying part...
U r supposed to respect ur siblings,
join the school which they joined,
follow their footsteps coz they have already passed ur age n know where to go n where not to,
get all second hand goods n yet feel happy to be getting them,
always speak after them...
(coz parents always listen to 1st kids 1st)....
n finally even after u do all this....a day comes when ur parents say..."dont be a menace"...learn from ur sibling...they know everything n u r still a kid...
STILL A KID??????
being 20 something is still being a kid???
????
Is it good or bad???
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