n today is one of those greatest days of my Indecisiveness....
jus hoping tht these sayings boost up me and all those who r feeling low today...:):)
"Destiny is not a matter of chance,its a matter of choice."
"The boldest decisions are the safest."
"Somewhere along the line of development we discover what we really are, and then we make our real decision for which we are responsible. Make that decision primarily for yourself because you can never really live anyone else's life."
-- Eleanor Roosevelt
"Decide like a man of action, implement like a man of thought."
"Every problem, properly perceived, becomes an opportunity."
"Thinking without action is a daydream. Action without thinking is a nightmare."
"Things, which matter most, must never be at the mercy of things which matter least."
"good decision is never an accident."so always decide with your mind and not with your hope.
I was actually surfing google about the root cause of indecisiveness n luckily found a site which said...
OVERCOMING INDECISIVENESS...n i was promptly interested in tht...n this is wht i found in tht ;5steps to overcome ur indecisiveness...
- Listen to your gut. Usually your instincts are right on. However, if you have been shushing your gut feelings over a long period of time, you might have forgotten how to know what they are saying to you. Breathe deeply, close your eyes and try to hear that inner voice.
- Consider the worst case scenario of that gut feeling. Once you have thought about the most terrible thing that could happen if you make your instinctive choice, you might realize that it wouldn't be that bad. You can also come up with ways to deal with that possible outcome.
- Leave it alone for a while. If the decision does not need to be made immediately, give yourself a time limit to mull it over. Sleep on it or walk away for a half-hour.
- Imagine living with the decision. That might be as simple as eating a butter brickle sundae or as life altering as being married to the person you are dating. Sit in the feelings that come along with that imagery. Do you feel content or disappointed, stressed out or at peace?
- Flip a coin. Call heads for one choice, tails for the other. When the coin lands and you see the outcome, check your emotions. Do you feel relieved or let down? Use this as a tool in coming to your final decision.
Honesty is to be the one you are.It is important to identify your weaknesses as well as your strengths. Being honest with yourself is the most important thing you can ever do. When it comes to yourself, you have to be brutally honest. To be honest, you must fully accept that at this moment, you can only be what you are. No more, no less; however, with the inevitable passing of each moment of time, you will gradually, but surely change -- to become more or less, better or worse, stronger or weaker. Your choice is the direction of change. The only true competition is the rivalry within your changing self.
Everything starts with yourself -- with you making up your mind about what you're going to do with your life.
Finally, in decision-making there is no one better to talk to than yourself if you really want to get things worked out. No other person has as much information about your problems, and no one knows your skills and capabilities better.
LIVE LIFE WITH NO REGRETS!!!!!the best way to lead a life in tht maner is to take a full responsibility of your decisions,your life.
n finally whn you have decided upon something....a way to success n happiness is...
"Make a choice - any choice. If it is the wrong one, learn from it. And if it’s right, then congratulations!!!"
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