Love-The most beautiful relation in this world......the word itself is so pleasant to hear.....
From the time we enter this world we r surrounded by ppl who love us ....right frm our parents,relatives and slowly as we grow we make frnds...we start loving them and our life seems so happy whn ppl whom we love r around us....
N thn one day u feel mayb this love was not sufficient 4 u n u start searching 4 ur life partner....a person who will b thr with u through think n thin....we go through so many emotions all along our life.....torrent of feelings surround us whn we feel we may actually b in love....
Many people actually say tht true love happens only once n tht is ur 1st love....but is this in real???
Wht is exactly meant by true love...finding an emotional security in ur partner..or coz u felt infatuation as love due to immaturity...or jus coz u actually wanted to b in love..
There are many instances in our life whr we felt tht mayb this is wht we've been searching 4.....
We finally think of infatuation or crushes as love n spend some happy moments with tht person...but slowly down d line we realise tht this was not at all the person we ever wished of...we get easily frustated n want to end the relation.....and slowly after so many mixed emotions one day u realise ur childish acts....
whn our teens end n we start life afresh...d surge of hormones slow down...our maturity level increases...n finally we know wht we actually want from our lives....we r sure wht we will do in our career n in our life...emotions subside n practicality increases.....
We concentrate more on d settlement aspect n have a zeal to achieve something in our life...it is now whn we can say ourselves as stable....n whn at this point u actually find someone...u dont go with the flow...u think,analyse,take a lot of time fighting ur emotions n finally decide on something....this is the point i feel true love actually happens....
U r at a point in ur life whr u r emotionally,financially stable n u perfectly know the gud n bad aspects of a relation...u know wht u actually want from ur partner...n the relation which forms at this stage is d most stable....4 me true love is nothing but the understanding level between u n ur partner...the day u realise u can stay with tht person even in poverty n u still c tht persons hand in urs even in such situations...it is this point whr u can actually settle down with thm...
This is the time whn u feel a sense of responsibility...towards ur family n even towards ur partner...
I must say tht the ppl who fall in love at this point r d most lucky few....(i better say understadning d relation rather thn saying falling in love)...
I really hope to be in d lucky few.....
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